Specialized LGBTQ Therapy for Every Journey

If you're part of the LGBTQIA+ community, finding a therapist can be difficult. Often, therapists will have different experiences than those necessary to understand your perspective; some will even disregard your being LGBTQIA+ entirely. If you're looking for a reprieve from experiences like this, Trust Mental Health has LGBTQIA+ therapists who have the background to understand you personally. Read further to learn about the benefits of looking for LGBTQIA+ therapy at Trust Mental Health. 

The Importance of LGBTQ+ Therapy

Being a part of the LGBTQIA+ community can result in many incredibly positive experiences. For instance, it might allow you to have a deeper understanding of yourself and can lead to you forming deep connections with other queer people that you may not have been able to make otherwise. 

However, being LGBTQIA+ can feel incredibly isolating, especially if you don't know many people like you or are just coming out. Additionally, having to constantly push back queermisia (this blog will not use the term 'queerphobia,' as calling it a '-phobia' allows queermisic people the excuse that they are afraid of queer people) and even simple misunderstandings can be mentally and emotionally exhausting. Because of these effects, going to therapy as an LGBTQIA+ person can be massively helpful, especially considering the benefits outlined below: 

Empathy and Understanding 

When you're a part of the LGBTQIA+ community, finding people who can genuinely understand you and empathize with your experiences can sometimes be incredibly difficult. This is a huge benefit of finding an LGBTQIA+ therapist – because they are in the community as well, they can often personally speak to your experiences. Because of this understanding, an LGBTQIA+ therapist is more able to empathize with you, which is vital in them being a therapist you can trust. 

Additionally, an LGBTQIA+ therapist will often have experience with overcoming things like internalized queermisia as a member of the queer community themself. This makes them more able to instruct you in building empathy for yourself so that you can come to a healthy relationship with your queer identity. LGBTQIA+ therapists also have the experience of learning how to understand their identity, which they can use to help you to understand your queer identity. 

Validation

A common struggle in the queer community is the lack of validation from people outside – and even inside – the community. Not getting this validation is immensely difficult; being around people who don't bother to understand you is isolating and can often keep you from feeling confident in your experiences. 

LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy can help with this in a few different ways. For one, having someone to listen to you after you go through one of these experiences can help you work through your emotions around it, which makes you more able to ignore the words of those invalidating you and live your life as you are. Additionally, therapists have a breadth of knowledge about people and their potential reactions.  With this information, they can help you to stand up for yourself and successfully tell the person invalidating you why their comment is harmful to members of the LGBTQIA+ community. 

Specialized Techniques

There are many specialized techniques that a therapist can use to help you develop healthy coping strategies. However, it can sometimes be difficult to determine what method might work best for you and your experiences, as finding information on how different kinds of therapy might benefit an LGBTQIA+ person isn't always easy. 

LGBTQIA+-specific therapy can help you overcome this difficulty. As noted, the experiences of a therapist who is LGBTQIA+ make them able to understand you and how being queer has affected your life. In this case, a therapist with experience being queer can talk you through which kind of therapy might work for you as an LGBTQIA+ person – and, due to their personal experiences with being queer, they can be more true to your experiences in determining what type of therapy may be right for you. 

LGBTQ Therapy Services at Trust Mental Health

This section will outline the types of LGBTQIA+ therapy that Trust Mental Health offers and describe how they may benefit your well-being. Depending on your experiences and current life situation, Trust Mental Health has a variety of ways to help you in the way that you need. 

Individual LGBTQ Therapy

Individual therapy, also known as psychotherapy, is focused on personal growth and coping strategies. For many people, individual therapy helps them to create a better relationship between them and their minds. Using the strategies taught to create this relationship, those who do individual therapy are better able to live their life to the fullest.

For LGBTQIA+ people, this kind of therapy can help you come to terms with any identities you may be struggling with and determine a path to living your life as you want. In terms of coming to terms with your identity, a therapist can help you work through anything that may be blocking you from accepting yourself fully and help you cultivate self-love. LGBTQIA+ therapy can also help you figure out how to express yourself in a way that's true to all of you, whether that be through external presentation or not. 

LGBTQ Relationship Counseling

Relationship counseling is useful no matter what relationship you're in. For one, it allows you to ensure your relationship is healthy and sustainable for everyone involved. Getting this kind of counseling often involves having honest conversations with your partner(s) to determine if there are any issues in your relationship and, if so, what to do about them. 

However, being in a queer relationship can make the process of relationship counseling complicated. For instance, if you or your partner(s) isn't/aren't 'out' to some of the people the other is out to, it can put stress on your relationship and create tension between you. Additionally, experiencing discrimination for being LGBTQIA+ can increase your and your partner(s)'s anxiety, which can make keeping a healthy relationship difficult. For these reasons, finding therapy that's specifically LGBTQIA+-affirming can be incredibly beneficial in your and your partner(s)'s relationship. 

Family Support Therapy

Family support therapy is a kind of therapy focused on improving relationships between family members, whether it's between parents, siblings, grandparents, or some combination thereof. It is often used to improve communication, deal with something that all family members are going through, and decrease stress. 

For many LGBTQIA+ people, having a family that accepts you for who you are takes far more work than it should for anyone. However, putting in this work can be incredibly validating and result in greater long-term benefits for both you and your family. For instance, examining your and your family's relationship to your LGBTQIA+ identity in therapy can make your family more open to you and how you want to live your life. This can then decrease any tensions between yourself and the other members of your family, which then allows you to have a healthier relationship. 

LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Therapy

LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapy is a form of therapy to help you come to a fuller understanding of the issues your community faces and how your struggles fit within that. This knowledge is gained as your therapist works with you to healthily consider the social challenges and stigma associated with being LGBTQIA+. This may include your therapist teaching you about certain aspects of queermisia you may not have considered before and working with you to determine how these aspects affected your life. Additionally, your therapist will help you evaluate the effect of stigma on your mental health, whether that's through anxiety, stress, depression, or a combination thereof. By helping you consider the stigma you have faced and the challenges it has created for you, your LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapist aims to help you create a better relationship with your identity and, therefore, yourself.

Why Trust Mental Health for LGBTQ Therapy?

Trust Mental Health offers inclusive therapy all around the Bay Area. With a team of BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ therapists, Trust Mental Health is prepared to help you overcome any challenges you may be struggling with. Click here to find a therapist in your area. 

Specialized LGBTQ Therapists

At Trust Mental Health, therapists are prepared to handle an abundance of issues you may be experiencing in your life. Whether you're looking for help dealing with discrimination or struggling to determine your identity and how it may fit into your life, Trust Mental Health has LGBTQIA+ therapy for you. Additionally, LGBTQIA+ therapists at Trust Mental Health are prepared to help you with intersections of your queer identity and mental issues such as anxiety and depression, which are far more common in the LGBTQIA+ community than in the general population. 

Holistic and Affirming Approach

Trust Mental Health is uniquely prepared to help you explore how your LGBTQIA+ identity interacts with different parts of your life. As noted, Trust Mental Health has LGBTQIA+ therapists, and their goal is to make you feel confident in who you are and help you live your life as your truest self. A holistic approach to therapy – or, one where therapists consider all of your identities and challenges in determining a path to success – allows you to consider how being LGBTQIA+ makes you who you are. Therapists at Trust Mental Health will then work with you to cultivate an accepting space for yourself within your mind, which is incredibly beneficial for you and your mental health. 

Confidential and Inclusive

What sets Trust Mental Health apart is the cultural and linguistic diversity it strives to employ. For instance, therapists at Trust Mental Health cumulatively speak eighteen different languages. This means that therapists at Trust Mental Health are fully capable of conducting sessions in a language that may be more comfortable for you. 

Additionally, Trust Mental Health's team of therapists comes from a wide range of cultural and religious backgrounds. Because of this, therapists at Trust Mental Health are more able to understand how you may be struggling with the intersection of your LGBTQIA+ identity and another identity, which enables them to help you in a way that works for you. 

Aside from this, therapists at Trust Mental Health will ensure that your identity and anything you may be struggling with remains confidential.  You can be confident that therapists at Trust Mental Health will never share anything without your explicit permission.

FAQs

  • LGBTQI+ therapy is meant to hold a queer-inclusive lens in sessions. This allows queer-identified clients to feel seen, heard, and safe because they can trust that their therapist is well-versed in queer culture. In this setting, the client will not need to use session time to explain nuances to their therapist and can instead spend the entire session working through the feelings that are coming up for them.

  • The affirmative therapy approach was the first therapeutic approach that encouraged LGBTQ+ people to share their identities in therapy without their queerness being labeled as a “mental illness.” This important change paved the way for queer-inclusive therapy work to grow and evolve over time.

  • Therapists should be trained with information regarding the LGBTQ+ community to ensure more effective treatment. There is no way of knowing if or when a client may come out to you, and it is important to be prepared to maintain a safe, open space for them, should they share that information with their therapist.